A brief hiatus but it's for the good

So I had settled into my new job and my times had lessened where I could be the girl I had chosen to be.

My relationship with my then partner was getting rocky and we decided to part... I fell in love again and started to settle down...

But deep within someone was bursting to come out in the open...

I joined twitter and made connections with like minded people, forged friendships and decided to take a bold step, I became friends with a very supportive lady who actually saved me on 2 occasions later in that year. The bold step was probably my best decisions. I got to meet people and feel at ease.

One day in July 2019 was world sunk as my relationship came tumbling down. I knew this was a sign that this was to be my opening.

In the mean time I started to socialise with my saviour once a month and felt a kind of happiness not felt before. I met 2 other ladies who would also become very close friends too.

I had a conversation with a lovely lady from Glasgow, who was so warming to me and I broached the subject of my alter ego. With open arms she said to me I'm going to help you.. I was so happy and thus I named myself Tammy, finally she was free... Many messages with my ideas came back and forth... I had a mentor now... Tammy had her identity... All I needed now was to be in public...

A plan was hatched and arrangements were made for this major turning point...


Tammy xxx 


The next part is going to describe that long weekend and how the build up to it came about 


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